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Who is a Friend??

 It is safe to say that the term friendship or the use of the word friend, carries a different meaning now than it did a few decades back. I don't know know how others who were born before technological advancements - especially those born before the new millennium - would describe who a friend is, but for me, what i do remember is that a friend meant someone who lived next door to our house, attended the same school or shared the same class/desk with, a friend of friend or a child to my parents' friends and so on. In short, a friend was someone known personally, interacted/played with on a regular if not daily basis. There is a plethora of definitions out there when it comes to talking about who a friend is. The Oxford dictionary puts it this way, "a friend is a person with whom one has a bond of mutual affection; typically one exclusive of sexual or family relations. Going by this definition, what it means then is that social media platforms like Facebook have it all wro...

Dating Apps..A Necessary Evil?

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  Tinder, Bumble, Match, to mention but a few. All these applications (Apps) and a thousand more have one thing in common; dating. They are platforms meant for single people to meet other singles to chat with, go on dates with and possibly get into a relationship with. Some marriages are as result of these dating apps. Each app is specifically customized to meet specific preferences. According to Pew Research Center, online dating is especially popular among certain groups - particularly among young adults and those who identify as Lesbian, gay, and bisexual. Have you ever wondered why there are so many of these dating apps? Just take a moment to think about how our parents and their parents managed to find each other without the aide of these platforms. What has changed now? Well, it would seem that dating apps make it somewhat easy for people to find others that they find physically attractive and share common interests with. Other positive attributes include the ease and efficie...